First Time Buyers March 3, 2026

Inside look at how a realtor works and where the money goes

There has been a lot of discussion lately about real estate agent commissions. Most REALTORS® truly love what they do because they love helping people—but there is often a major misconception about how they work and how they get paid.
Here’s the truth:
The average full-time REALTOR® earned about $31,900 last year, while working 40+ hours per week. That’s well below a typical living wage. REALTORS® are not paid an hourly wage or salary. They only get paid when a home sells and successfully closes. And even then, payment happens broker-to-broker.
An agent may work with a client for days, weeks, months, or even years—with no guarantee of ever getting paid.
Essentially, REALTORS® wake up every day “unemployed,” constantly interviewing for their next job. They face frequent rejection and uncertainty. They sacrifice time with family, spend their own money on gas and childcare, miss dinners, weekends, and vacations, and are often on call 24/7. If they’re not available, they could miss an opportunity.
When a home finally closes, the commission is first split with their broker. Then about 25–30% goes to taxes. After that, they must cover the many expenses they’ve already paid out of pocket—marketing, photography, advertising, and more.
Before earning a single dollar, REALTORS® pay for things like:
• Broker splits and fees
• Office rent and utilities
• MLS, NAR, and local association fees
• Errors & Omissions insurance
• Auto and business insurance
• State licensing and continuing education
• Advertising and marketing
• Showing services
• Website and tech fees
• Assistants and transaction coordinators
• Yard signs, photographers, videographers
• Office supplies and printed materials
• Lockboxes and software
• Legal and professional fees
• Gas and vehicle expenses
• Self-employment taxes
And remember—income taxes are not withheld. REALTORS® must set aside roughly 25–30% themselves. Health insurance is also their responsibility.
So when you work with a REALTOR®, know that you’re working with someone who invests their time, energy, and money into helping you succeed—often long before they ever see a paycheck.
Support your REALTOR. They work harder than most people realize. 💙🏡
Here’s a few more examples of what they do! Just to name a few!
As a listing agent they have lots of tasks far more than just selling a home.
1. Prepare Listing Presentation for Sellers
2. Research Sellers Property Tax Info
3. Research Comparable Sold Properties for Sellers
4. Determine Average Days on Market
5. Gather Info From Sellers About Their Home
6. Meet With Sellers at Their Home
7. Get To Know Their Home
8. Present Listing Presentation
9. Advise on Repairs and/or Upgrades
10. Provide Home Seller To-Do Checklist
11. Explain Current Market Conditions
12. Discuss Seller’s Goals
13. Share Your Value Proposition
14. Explain Benefits of Your Brokerage
15. Present Your Marketing Options
16. Explain Video Marketing Strategies
17. Demonstrate 3D Tour Marketing
18. Explain Buyer & Seller Agency Relationships
19. Describe the Buyer Pre-Screening Process
20. Create Internal File for Transaction
21. Get Listing Agreement & Disclosures Signed
22. Provide Sellers Disclosure Form to Sellers
23. Verify Interior Room Sizes
24. Obtain Current Mortgage Loan Info
25. Confirm Lot Size from County Tax Records
26. Investigate Any Unrecorded Property Easements
27. Establish Showing Instructions for Buyers
28. Agree on Showing Times with Sellers
29. Discuss Different Types of Buyer Financing
30. Explain Appraisal Process and Pitfalls
31. Verify Home Owners Association Fees
32. Obtain a Copy of HOA Bylaws
33. Gather Transferable Warranties
34. Determine Need for Lead-Based Paint Disclosure
35. Verify Security System Ownership
36. Discuss Video Recording Devices & Showings
37. Determine Property Inclusions & Exclusions
38. Agree on Repairs to Made Before Listing
39. Schedule Staging Consultation
40. Schedule House Cleaners
41. Install Electronic Lockbox & Yard Sign
42. Set-Up Photo/Video Shoot
43. Meet Photographer at Property
44. Prepare Home For Photographer
45. Schedule Drone & 3D Tour Shoot
46. Get Seller’s Approval of All Marketing Materials
47. Input Property Listing Into The MLS
48. Create Virtual Tour Page
49. Verify Listing Data on 3rd Party Websites
50. Have Listing Proofread
51. Create Property Flyer
52. Have Extra Keys Made for Lockbox
53. Set-Up Showing Services
54. Help Owners Coordinate Showings
55. Gather Feedback After Each Showing
56. Keep track of Showing Activity
57. Update MLS Listing as Needed
58. Schedule Weekly Update Calls with Seller
59. Prepare “Net Sheet” For All Offers
60. Present All Offers to Seller
61. Obtain Pre-Approval Letter from Buyer’s Agent
62. Examine & Verify Buyer’s Qualifications
63. Examine & Verify Buyer’s Lender
64. Negotiate All Offers
65. Once Under Contract, Send to Title Company
66. Check Buyer’s Agent Has Received Copies
67. Change Property Status in MLS
68. Deliver Copies of Contact/Addendum to Seller
69. Keep Track of Copies for Office File
70. Coordinate Inspections with Sellers
71. Explain Buyer’s Inspection Objections to Sellers
72. Determine Seller’s Inspection Resolution
73. Get All Repair Agreements in Writing
74. Refer Trustworthy Contractors to Sellers
75. Meet Appraiser at the Property
76. Negotiate Any Unsatisfactory Appraisals
77. Confirm Clear-to-Close
78. Coordinate Closing Times & Location
79. Verify Title Company Has All Docs
80. Remind Sellers to Transfer Utilities
81. Make Sure All Parties Are Notified of Closing Time
82. Resolve Any Title Issues Before Closing
83. Receive and Carefully Review Closing Docs
84. Review Closing Figures With Seller
85. Confirm Repairs Have Been Made
86. Resolve Any Last Minute Issues
87. Attend Seller’s Closing
88. Pick Up Sign & Lock Box
89. Change Status in MLS to “Sold.”
90. Close Out Seller’s File With Brokerage
As a buyers agent they also have many tasks.
1. Schedule Time To Meet Buyers
2. Prepare Buyers Guide & Presentation
3. Meet Buyers and Discuss Their Goals
4. Explain Buyer & Seller Agency Relationships
5. Discuss Different Types of Financing Options
6. Help Buyers Find a Mortgage Lender
7. Obtain Pre-Approval Letter from Their Lender
8. Explain What You Do For Buyers As A Realtor
9. Provide Overview of Current Market Conditions
10. Explain Your Company’s Value to Buyers
11. Discuss Earnest Money Deposits
12. Explain Home Inspection Process
13. Educate Buyers About Local Neighborhoods
14. Discuss Foreclosures & Short Sales
15. Gather Needs & Wants Of Their Next Home
16. Explain School Districts Effect on Home Values
17. Explain Recording Devices During Showings
18. Learn All Buyer Goals & Make A Plan
19. Create Internal File for Buyers Records
20. Send Buyers Homes Within Their Criteria
21. Start Showing Buyers Home That They Request
22. Schedule & Organize All Showings
23. Gather Showing Instructions for Each Listing
24. Send Showing Schedule to Buyers
25. Show Up Early and Prepare First Showing
26. Look For Possible Repair Issues While Showing
27. Gather Buyer Feedback After Each Showing
28. Update Buyers When New Homes Hit the Market
29. Share Knowledge & Insight About Homes
30. Guide Buyers Through Their Emotional Journey
31. Listen & Learn From Buyers At Each Showing
32. Keep Records of All Showings
33. Update Listing Agents with Buyer’s Feedback
34. Discuss Home Owner’s Associations
35. Estimate Expected Utility Usage Costs
36. Confirm Water Source and Status
37. Discuss Transferable Warranties
38. Explain Property Appraisal Process
39. Discuss Multiple Offer Situations
40. Create Practice Offer To Help Buyers Prepare
41. Provide Updated Housing Market Data to Buyers
42. Inform Buyers of Their Showing Activity Weekly
43. Update Buyers On Any Price Drops
44. Discuss MLS Data With Buyers At Showings
45. Find the Right Home for Buyers
46. Determine Property Inclusions & Exclusions
47. Prepare Sales Contract When Buyers are Ready
48. Educate Buyer’s On Sales Contract Options
49. Determine Need for Lead-Based Paint Disclosure
50. Explain Home Warranty Options
51. Update Buyer’s Pre-Approval Letter
52. Discuss Loan Objection Deadlines
53. Choose a Closing Date
54. Verify Listing Data Is Correct
55. Review Comps With Buyers To Determine Value
56. Prepare & Submit Buyer’s Offer to Listing Agent
57. Negotiate Buyers Offer With Listing Agent
58. Execute A Sales Contract & Disclosures
59. Once Under Contract, Send to Title Company
60. Coordinate Earnest Money Drop Off
61. Deliver Copies to Mortgage Lender
62. Obtain Copy of Sellers Disclosure for Buyers
63. Deliver Copies of Contract/Addendum to Buyers
64. Obtain A Copy of HOA Bylaws
65. Keep Track of Copies for Office File
66. Coordinate Inspections with Buyers
67. Meet Inspector At The Property
68. Review Home Inspection with Buyers
69. Negotiate Inspection Objections
70. Get All Agreed Upon Repair Items in Writing
71. Verify any Existing Lease Agreements
72. Check In With Lender To Verify Loan Status
73. Check on the Appraisal Date
74. Negotiate Any Unsatisfactory Appraisals
75. Coordinate Closing Times & Location
76. Make Sure All Documents Are Fully Signed
77. Verify Title Company Has Everything Needed
78. Remind Buyers to Schedule Utilities
79. Make Sure All Parties Are Notified of Closing Time
80. Solve Any Title Problems Before Closing
81. Receive and Review Closing Documents
82. Review Closing Figures With Buyers
83. Confirm Repairs Have Been Made By Sellers
84. Perform Final Walk-Through with Buyers
85. Resolve Any Last Minute Issues
86. Get CDA Signed By Brokerage
87. Attend Closing with Buyers
88. Provide Home Warranty Paperwork
89. Give Keys and Accessories to Buyers
90. Close Out Buyer’s File Brokerage
Whew…exhausting isn’t it!?! 🤯
✨You don’t need to buy or sell a home to support your agents real estate business – here are just a few simple ways to show your support!⁣ By sharing one of their listings, sending a friend or family member their way, letting them connect you with agents outside their area for a broker to broker referral, or leaving them a positive comment or review, this helps them feel seen and supported – (thanks to you)! ❤️✨ Caroline
First Time Buyers February 17, 2026

Is that Realtor reputable?

How to Find a Reputable First-Time Buyer Agent (Without Getting Burned)

Buying your first home is exciting.

It’s also where people make expensive mistakes. (With the right guidance from a seasoned agent that wont happen, and yes I’m pointing at myself :))

The truth?
Not every agent who says they “love working with first-time buyers” actually knows how to protect one. (They really don’t)

So let’s talk about how to find the right one — the kind who educates you, negotiates hard, and doesn’t disappear when things get uncomfortable. (I’m around after the sale anytime, ask any of my people)


1. Look for Proof — Not Promises

Anyone can say they’re experienced.(yes but in what?)

What you want to see:

  • Documented first-time buyer closings (My Clients take pictures with me to post on social because they understand my business is spread by word of mouth when they are extremely satisfied, 90% of my clients come from past clients. I have to be doing something right!)
  • Experience with first-time buyer programs and grants (Having Knowledge of what’s available but a Lender will know the ins and outs, agents have to stay in their lane)
  • Strong reviews that mention communication and guidance ( on my website, which I need to update with about 20 more)
  • Local knowledge of neighborhoods, taxes, and resale trends

A reputable agent will show you actual examples of how they’ve helped buyers navigate inspections, appraisal gaps, and financing hiccups.

If they’re vague?
That’s your cue.


2. Ask How They Educate You

First-time buyers don’t need a door opener.
They need a translator.

Your agent should explain:

  • Loan options and what they really mean long-term (FHA, VA, Conventional, USDA, hard money)
  • Property taxes and how they impact your payment (Can you get an exemption?)
  • Resale value and appreciation trends
  • Inspection reports — in plain English (I have inspectors that speak english not report-ies)

If you feel rushed, confused, or pressured… that’s not your person.


3. Interview at Least Two Agents

This isn’t rude. It’s smart. (Highly recommend, be comfortable with your agent they should feel like family(well only if you like your family)

Ask:

  • How many first-time buyers did you help last year?
  • What’s your strategy in competitive situations?
  • How do you protect buyers from overpaying?
  • What happens if an inspection uncovers major issues?

A seasoned first-time buyer agent will answer confidently — without fluff.


4. Make Sure They Understand the Programs

There are programs many buyers don’t even know exist.

For example in Central Texas:

  • Texas State Affordable Housing Corporation (TSAHC)
  • VA loans
  • USDA loans in qualifying areas
  • Down payment assistance grants

An agent experienced with first-time buyers knows how to align you with lenders who specialize in these programs — not just whoever answers the phone. ( I have those lenders who are your hand holders and are there with you at closing. We are your team!)


5. Pay Attention to Communication

This matters more than people think.

Do they:

  • Respond quickly?
  • Explain things clearly?
  • Set expectations upfront?
  • Keep you calm when emotions spike?

Buying your first home is emotional.
You want someone steady — not reactive. (Hi, I’m right here… My people will tell you, i don’t have business hours because I know those questions don’t always pop up between 9-5.)


6. Check Local Market Knowledge

Your first home is likely also your first investment.

A reputable agent should know:

  • Average price per square foot in your target area
  • School district impact on value
  • Upcoming developments that could raise or lower values
  • Days on market trends

If they can’t talk numbers comfortably, they shouldn’t be advising you financially.


Red Flags to Watch For

Be cautious if an agent:

  • Pushes you toward homes above your budget (red flag)
  • Avoids discussing resale value (I’ll let you know if I think its a bad idea, i don’t help if I don’t give you good feed back)
  • Can’t clearly explain the contract (RUN don’t walk)
  • Doesn’t attend inspections ( why would they not?)
  • Pressures you to waive protections without strategy (keep RUNNING)

Your first home purchase should feel informed — not chaotic.


The Bottom Line

A reputable first-time buyer agent does three things well:

  1. Educates
  2. Protects
  3. Negotiates

They don’t just help you buy a house.

They help you make a smart financial move that sets you up for your next one.

And if you’re buying in Central Texas, working with someone who understands the local market, first-time buyer psychology, and the ins and outs of VA and grant programs can make the entire experience smoother — and far less stressful.


If you’re in the research phase and want to know what buying actually looks like in today’s market — start with one conversation.

Clarity changes everything.

Call me anytime,

Caroline 512.786.2575Love my clients!